Well I tried. I feel this whole Brian Allen saga by all parties goes a lot deeper than people will ever let on. It's about roles, guardianship, release, patterns, and catharsis. All are duty bound to continue to be actors in this tired out play that should of been shut down ages ago.
Edit: As for me I am exiting stage right.
For the record, I tried, quite hard actually thru private conversations with Brian to set my end of this aside. I went so far as to invite him to the next BOTA against almost every team members objection, just to get this to pass. Brian is simply not capable of being anything but a negative self loathing troll who probably could use some negative work on his limbic reward system.
So be it, I'm no stranger to being a jerk to those who need it and being a great friend to those who deserve it. Brian picked which Ken he gets to interact with. I'm sorry everyone else has to suffer along with me.