I try to keep the peace but some people love Drama/Bullying
Bull! You're the biggest drama queen in CAG, Brian.
You clearly have no ability or no desire to see yourself through the eyes of others. I would love to
spell out all the flaws in your character for you - how annoying you can be, how rude you can be, how whiny you can be - but it would do no good because you are either unwilling or without capacity to perceive reality.
Anyone so unwilling to accept criticism of their character is just a dick, and anyone without the capacity for mental growth is just a moron.
So which is it Brian? Are you a dick, or a moron?
If you're a dick then you should expect to be treated like a dick. If you're a moron you'll have to work harder to be treated equally. If you're both, which is what I suspect, then you're just humped - destined to view the world as your enemy, when in fact, you are the enemy.